Monday, July 19, 2010

The Way to Handle Relationships Post Divorce

There are many things that are to be considered to handle relationships post divorce. They include handling issues related to alimony, legal issues, and divorce custody for children. After divorce, it is quite natural that you will be not interested in your ex-spouse or rather disturbed both physically and mentally. Consequently, you would not be in state of mind to go for new relationships.

While beginning a new relationship, there may be many doubts in the mind whether the same mistakes will be repeated. The divorced people fear that they may have to go through the same problems once again. All these may act as an obstacle in building new relationships after divorce.

You have to live alone and independently manage your own things. This may lead to alter your relationships with others. Some people easily recover from the trauma of failed relationships, whereas some take a lot of time. The best way to handle this crisis situation is stay close to your family members and friends. They would give you suitable advice, and support that would help you to come out of this stressful situation. It would strengthen your beliefs, and encourage you to begin and maintain new relations.

The most crucial aspect is maintaining a relationship with your ex-spouse and children post divorce. Every time you communicate with them, it would remind you about the whole incident once again. The family members of your ex-wife may or may not want to maintain relationships with you. So, don’t enforce yourself on them. This relationship can be maintained well by divorce mediation.

Tips that can be used to handle relationships post divorce:

• Accept that the relationship has failed
• Don’t underestimate yourself as the relationship has failed
• Maintain a friendly relation with your ex-spouse and other family members
• Post divorce your relationship is going to change with everyone. Work on building and maintaining these and new relationships
• Develop a clear role description between being a parent and a step parent. There are chances of role conflict. Provide much attention while communicating as you did earlier
• You can also opt for advice from a relationship counselor regarding maintaining relationship

5 comments:

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